About myself

So I better start by describing myself as that seems to be a good start. I'm 18 years old,nearly nineteen, almost finished with school (graduation is coming up) bisexual, Genderfluid and a constant aspiring Babybat (Goth in progress!)

I'm a freelance artist, photographer and writer and love cosplay! I've recently joined a Lolita group in my community but due to my previously busy schedule and pure unluckiness with work,school or being ill, I have yet to attend any meet-ups and meet my fellow Lolitas 😭 I'll get there yet!

I started identifying as Genderfluid last year after finding out that that was the correct term for it. I've never felt as though I was purely just female and I knew that I was not physically male so I had previously been very confused and horribly self conscious, never feeling quite right in how was "supposed" to act or look/dress. After finding out that you didn't have to label yourself as a gender purely because of your appearance and that Genderfluidty was a thing, this opened up a whole new perspective to me and I felt freedom like I never had before. The few close friends that I originally told were wonderfully accepting, and proved my ridiculous fears that I was being selfish and freakish completely wrong. I am now fully open with my being Genderfluid and no longer care what others think of it ^_^


For the first few years of my life, in nursery and primary school, I went through the dreaded Pink Phase. Badly. I can proudly say that I am /long/ *cured* from this and have seen Sense as it were. XD
Towards the end of primary school and coming into High School, I started identifying myself as Goth, although due to being low on money and knowledge, I was not an obvious one as I looked nothing the part. This is still an ongoing thing but I have been improving throughout the years and have been trying hard to look and actually be myself.

This Blog will document my own personal progress with myself and those around me. I look forward to sharing my experiences with you ^_^